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SAS - "Seek Advice Soon" for Your Relationship and Sex Life
Seeking advice for problems with our relationships can be fraught with difficulties. If you have a leaky roof you get it fixed straight away, but did you know that on average it takes us 6 years to fix a relationship or sexual problem? By that time things are so bad the lawyers have to be called in. Treat your counselor as your best buddy. So if you and your wife are arguing all the time get help before you stop talking altogether.
Just recently there was a magazine article which asked whether the therapists themselves practiced what they preached and guess what? They all sought help well BEFORE they got into difficulties. All of them talked to their therapist even for half an hour on the telephone to get things straight in their minds and to give them a different way of dealing with things.
How Diet Affects Sexual Performance
On the one hand it is said that men think about sex every few seconds. On the other hand there is a multi-billion dollar industry in pharmaceuticals for treatment of erectile and sexual dysfunction. Obviously there is a significant disconnect between the desire to perform compared with the ability to perform effectively.
The human sexual response is incredibly complex and is influenced by many elements including psychological, physical and environmental factors. Aphrodisiacs have been promoted to increase libido and sexual performance for over 5000 years. The term Aphrodisiac is named after the Greek Goddess of love and beauty Aphrodite and has over time included many and varied foods, drugs, drinks, scents and devices.
A Healthy Sex Life may be as Close as Your Plate
Everyone wants a healthy and active sex life, but all too often, we forget that we cannot enjoy lovemaking if we aren't physically fit. A proper diet combined with exercise can affect every aspect of our lives. We are born with one body, and will not get another one. If we expect the one we have to serve us well, we have to take care of it.
One important way of taking care of the body we have is to feed it a balanced diet of nourishing foods---and stay away from those that are detrimental to it.
There's no one right way to eat that will apply to every human body because each one is unique. And, because of illness, stress, pregnancy, exposure to toxins, the quality of the food supply, and many other factors---no single diet is the ideal diet for everyone at every stage in life. But, there are some basic guidelines that can help you find the regimen that's right for you.
Human Pheromones - Myth or fact?
Pheromones are chemicals that send signals to other members of the same species. These signals could serve many purposes such as marking out territory (As dogs and cats do through urination) or to mark a food trail (Have you ever wondered how ants all seem to converge on the same food source?) or to send alarm signals warning other members of the species of impending danger. However, the most widely known purpose and the one which has always attracted the most attention is the use of pheromones as a means of sexual attraction.
Pheromones as a sexual attractant were identified as far back as 1956 when scientists extracted a compound from certain glands on the abdomen of the silkworm moth. This pheromone which they named bombykol was found to have an amazing effect on male silkworm moths. When exposed to it they immediately went into a frenzied "flutter dance". The scientists realized they had found a vital element in the process of sexual attraction for these moths. Over time, this information has been used to control and disrupt the breeding cycles of many insects and pests.
5 Secrets of Seduction to Arouse Your Partner
There are many ways to express love to your partner other than quoting the actual words "I Love You". Sometimes the "fizz" can easily evaporate in our relationship so the feeling of your heart pounding with the excitement is no longer felt.
So, how do we get back that love of warm feelings that wrap around us and penetrate our thoughts? Many say actions speak louder than words so here are listed 5 secrets of seduction to help you on your way.
1 - Flirt
This is a light-hearted seduction with the intent of conveying love; so why not send a sexy text message? This reminds the other person that you are thinking about her/him. It also increases the intensity of love so that you actually look forward to seeing each other when you return home from work.
How Soon Is Too Soon?
This is a question that many women and men ask themselves when it comes to dating and sex. Is there a right or wrong time to start having sex with someone that you are dating? Of course, this assumes that you plan to have sex before marriage. Unfortunately there is not a clear cut answer for everyone out there that is dating and looking forward to having sex.
Many of the "rule" books say that you shouldn't have sex for at least two weeks, others say one month, others three months. Which is right? The fact of the matter is that all of them are right and all of them are wrong. There are many men and women that can comfortably have sex after one night and others that wouldn't think of having sex after one year. The decision is a personal one and as long as you can follow your heart or at least your intuition you will probably do just fine.
Social Implications For The Female Orgasm
As we all know, it is often difficult for women to reach an orgasm It so much easier for men! Well, one of the most important reasons are definitely “social†believe it or not!
For a long time, society viewed sex as a source of male pleasure only. Women were meant to satisfy her husband's longings reluctantly and to produce offspring but they were not supposed to enjoy sex. This social idea has a long history. The Greek philosopher Aristotle believed that women were mere incubators for the babies their partners delivered into their bodies during intercourse. Since the man in this view was making the biggest contribution then he deserved to receive all of the pleasure, so sex became male-focused. Interestingly enough, before Aristotle some people believed that babies were the product of female pleasure so to reproduce men had to please their wives. Unfortunately for women, Aristotle threw that concept out the window.
Reduce Stress to Enhance Your Love Life
The topic of stress has been the object of controversy in recent decades due to the various ways to administer it. There are different ways for different cultures. Where the Hindus have yoga the Japanese have Zen. Both of these methods are excellent in relieving stress. There are many types of yoga and this practice includes stretching of the muscles and various positions to relax each body part.
Meditation and concentration for each movement will eventually with continued effort give you a youthful glow and allow you to keep stress levels at a minimum. Zen, on the other, hand is a style focusing on more of the meditation. Zen is a more philosophical approach to stress relief and really works if practiced on a regular schedule. Stress is often why our love lives are bad, but with proper control of stress, we can change all of that.
Is Oral Sex Taboo for You?
Oral sex is something that is still quite taboo. In fact, it’s something that friends don’t typically sit around and talk about. Women can have best friends, but they won’t tell one another that they perform oral sex on their boyfriends, husbands, or anyone. Men are the same way, they won’t tell their friends that they perform oral sex on the woman in their life, but both sexes are open to discussing the fact that they receive it! What’s wrong with this picture? Why is there something negative or dirty associated with being the one that performs oral sex? With so many people out there receiving, someone has to be giving, so why not admit it to your friends or those that you discuss your sex life with?
Are You Good? How Hot Are You In the Sack?
Everyone at some point has probably wondered if they are any good in bed, or if there is something that they could be doing better. Sex is something that many people assume will come naturally to them, and for some people it does, but for other people they are always wondering if there is something that they could do to "be better" in the sack. If you have these thoughts, take some comfort in the fact that you are not alone. But, don't let these thoughts take away the fun and spontaneity that you can experience sexually!
A lot of the time, you simply need to let go and stop worrying. If you are with someone that you like, you need to come across confident and the rest will happen naturally. When you sort of let go and let things happen naturally, you'll find that not only will you have a lot more fun and enjoy yourself more, your partner will also enjoy is or herself more. The key to being great in bed and pleasing your partner is being able to let go and not over thinking things. When you think about things too much, you may become mechanical, and you just won't be having much fun and your partner will definitely pick up on that!